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I have lived a BDSM lifestyle for over 20 years, and I bloody love this bit of kit! Highly recommend 💋💋💋

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 4.5 I give the Utimi BDSM Bondage Kit 4.5/5 stars!! I absolutely loved the variety of pieces, convenience of 11 matching pieces in 1 kit, the array of piece combinations and scenarios, the comfortable, high-end look and feel, and the incredible value. Just a couple minor, nitpicking things that could be better but I'm ALL IN on this kit!!

The Extreme Restraints STRICT Armbinder is one of the most effective immobilization tools available for consensual power dynamics. It delivers: +structural restraint +elegant posture +deep psychological surrender and +strong reinforcement of Dominant leadership. It is for pairs who understand trust, communication, and the difference between control and harm. If your dynamic values: +discipline +form +focus +obedience and +clear hierarchy, this armbinder will elevate your scenes to a new level of intentionality. It is not a costume piece. It is not an accessory. It is a commitment to structured restraint. For Dominants who lead confidently — and submissives who surrender with purpose — it is a tool worthy of the craft.

While most people think of a pair of handcuffs as the first step on a kink journey, they look a lot better in the movies than they feel in real life, more often leading to cries of "ow, those are digging into my back now", or "damn my wrists hurt." Instead, I'd argue that a decent under bed restraint system is a far more exciting introduction to bondage, and something will likely stay a part of your play chest even if you graduate to “harder” forms of bondage later. But shop wisely because not all under bed restraint systems are made the same. The DOMINIX Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff Under Mattress Set from LoveHoney is a solid choice, with leather cuffs and a secure method of mounting to your bed.

Sei Mio… Italian for “You are mine”... The name alone is a promise, and this toy delivers on it. It’s a statement of possession, of surrender, of playful control… and it captures exactly the kind of experience this ball gag invites. From its luxurious materials to its comfort in use, from the sensual aesthetics to the delicious silence it enforces, this gag is more than just gear, it’s a tool for connection, power, and pleasure. Fun, sexy, beautifully made, and undeniably effective. You’re not just wearing it... You’re offering yourself.

This bondage frame is an absolute steal for the price—around $300 from AliExpress, shipped. It's solid, heavy-duty, and endlessly customisable. Out of the box, the default setup leaves a lot to be desired (and possibly dislocated), but treat it like BDSM LEGO and it becomes a pervert’s dream project. Whether you’re into strict restraint, kinky engineering, or mounting a fucking machine like a mad scientist, this "slave frame" delivers serious value and versatility.

I absolutely loved it. It’s a rare find that balances aesthetic beauty ("Streamer Purple!") with genuine functionality. It’s heavy, it’s thuddy, and it looks gorgeous hanging on my wall or in my hand. Whether you are a gamer looking for a prop or an explorer looking for a sting, this is a 5-star addition to the gear bag. Kristycake approved!

The Lingam Glass Dildo Flogger is one of the most versatile, sensual, and psychologically rich toys in a collection — provided you treat it with respect, care, and awareness. Ideal for: Experienced couples exploring temperature play, dual sensations, impact + internal stimulation. People comfortable with firmer toys, precise control, and sensation variation (cold ↔ warm, soft ↔ firm). Scenes oriented around control, rhythm, contrast, and psychological layering rather than only penetration or vibration. Approach with caution if: You prefer very soft, flexible toys (silicone, gel). You’re new to glass or temperature play. There’s a risk of dropping the toy or using it carelessly (glass + hard floor = bad news). Overall: If used with attention to safety, cleaning, storage, and body awareness, the Lingam Glass Dildo Flogger becomes less a “toy” and more a tool of sensation orchestration — commanding depth, precision, and emotional intensity in a way few single-use or single-purpose toys can.

This is a fun kinky toy and more enjoyable than ball gag. Great fun, just a bit small and basic. 💋💋💋

I think these cuffs are so much fun and my partner and I have used them now multiple times. I didn't know what to expect as far as "installation" goes and was so pleased to see that they are so simple to use and that there was nothing at all that we had to put together. The soft velvety fabric of the cuffs also makes them quite pleasurable to have on. I can't wait to play with them again!

The Silicone O-Ring Gag with Nipple Clamps is essential for power exchange, layered BDSM scenes, and sensory play. It delivers: +Silence, submission, and psychological control +Tunable sensation and intensity through adjustable clamps +Flexibility for both beginners and advanced players +Integration with other bondage, sensory, and impact gear +Affordability (~$50–$60 USD) for its versatility and impact

Loved it! I use it pretty regularly and I've recommended it to friends as well. I am a sex educator and have given it away as a drawing prize at my kink education programs, too, because it's beginner friendly but also useful for advanced BDSM practitioners! I especially like it for travel, because it's small, doesn't contain metal (for TSA purposes), and it can go anywhere with you.

The silicone spatula is the gateway pervertable: approachable, versatile, discreet, and surprisingly elegant in the right hands. It invites creativity, encourages communication, and brings levity to scenes that might otherwise feel too intense or structured. Whether you’re a curious beginner, an experienced kinkster, or simply someone who appreciates the artistry in repurposing ordinary objects, the spatula earns a solid 10/10 for versatility, subtlety, and playful mischief.

The DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger is an inviting choice for anyone curious about exploring impact play. Made from real leather yet priced accessibly, it offers a taste of quality without the intimidation of luxury-level investment. Its weight and design make it easy to handle, especially for beginners, while still delivering enough presence to keep play exciting. It may not reach the heights of true artisan craftsmanship, but as an introduction to leather floggers, it strikes an excellent balance of affordability, durability, and pleasure.

Final verdict: these nipple clamps are a mainstay of our sex life, and we are happy we bought them. My partner uses them on me the majority of our play sessions, and we both enjoy the hell out of them. We've used these for many hours since we got them a year or two ago and we'll be using them for many years to come. They look as good as when we took them out of the package, and they work just as well. The finish hasn't been scratched or marred, the tension is just as high. Nothing has changed and the clamps remain wonderful.